Not Just Misunderstood.
Not Broken, Either.



Reconnection begins when you stop trying to make each other “make sense.”

This is about decoding.
Respecting difference.
And finding your way back to warmth.


They say they’ve explained this a hundred times.

Somewhere between your logic and their feelings,
everything gets lost.

This isn’t about blame.

It’s about language, timing, trust.

When your nervous systems speak different dialects, you need more than “better communication.” You need a translator—and time to slow the conversation down.

You’ve read the books. You’ve tried being patient—or louder. You’ve labeled each other, taken online quizzes, maybe even tried couples therapy…

But the heart of it still hurts. And the patterns keep repeating.

This is different.
We go deeper.
Slower.
With more precision-and care.

Therapy isn’t about fixing one partner.

It’s about learning how you both get dysregulated. How emotional safety gets misread. And how to co-create a rhythm that holds both of you.

We work with couples navigating:

  • Mismatched communication styles
  • Sensory sensitivities and shutdown
  • Masking and burnout
  • ADHD executive function strain
  • Alexithymia
  • Demand avoidance
  • Differences in sexual pace and expression
  • Parenting while neurodivergent
  • Emotional gridlock

Over a weekend.

Because an hour a week won’t cut it.

You’ve likely been stuck for years. Weekly therapy moves slowly—and often tiptoes around the hard stuff. A weekend intensive gives you the space, the privacy, and the guidance to face what’s really going on—together.

We don’t just talk about brain wiring. We talk about power, trust, vulnerability, and how those threads pull tight behind closed doors.

Our intensives are built for couples who:

  • Are still emotionally connected—but stuck in hurt
  • Want to stop blaming and start understanding
  • Are open to slowing down and learning a new framework
  • Have tried therapy, but felt misjudged or misunderstood.
  • It was all about one of you. and not both of you and how you relate.

If your dynamic includes severe reactivity, emotional abuse, or ongoing betrayal, we may recommend starting with individual stabilization before working as a couple.

Let’s Begin


You’ve been talking. You’ve tried staying quiet.
You’ve tried to explain the same thing, again and again.

Consider this.